#IFLosGallardos julio 2026

Unos pensamientos /a few thoughts

🇪🇸 Acabo de ver los presidentes del estado y de Andalucía juntos hablando en una rueda de prensa sobre el horroroso incendio en Los Gallardos. Me parece muy bien ver que todas las autoridades del estado colaboran cuando se vive la realidad del caos y las consecuencias que vienen con el cambio climático. No es teoría! Esto no es un simulacro, lo estamos pasando. Personalmente quiero ver más de esta cooperación. Solo juntos podemos dar cara a los problemas y decidir cómo vamos a cambiar cosas para bajar los riesgos a la ciudadanía y a nuestros propios hogares y entornos.

A todos niveles hay que asegurarse que hay los planes de prevención y también de emergencia que se necesitan, que son aptos para 2026. Además tenemos que decidir qué cambios podemos hacer en nuestras vidas, no es solo problema de políticos es problema de todos. No podemos volver atrás, pero tal vez no tengamos que seguir un camino de predestinación o fatalismo solo porque nos neguemos a hacer cambios o sacrificios personales.

Tampoco queremos ser testigos del despreciable juego de culpar a unos y a otros que ha iniciado la prensa, en el que, en esencia, se culpa a las víctimas del incendio. Esto le ha causado un gran dolor a muchos vecinos y familias. Es conveniente esperar a que se realice una investigación o se presenten pruebas. Debemos resistir la tentación de sacar conclusiones precipitadas, tal como suelen fomentar los algoritmos de las redes sociales. Los medios de comunicación tampoco deberían distraerse del debate sobre cuestiones fundamentales relacionadas con lo que podemos hacer respecto al cambio climático, porque resulta más interesante y dramático explotar la ira y el miedo.

El futuro de nuestros hijos y nietos no tiene que ser predeterminado, es para todos pagar atención. Los políticos individuales que se niegan del cambio climático, que no quieren o no le interesan hacer los cambios importantes que se necesitan para bajar los riesgos del caos del crisis climático, que se saquen del medio. Los demás, creo que es importante que se junten y colaboren, escuchando los hechos, la ciencia, no importa el partido, rechazando la desinformación. Solo así se puede recubrir la confianza del pueblo. Y el ciudadano y la ciudadana puede, por supuesto, colaborar con este gol en las urnas.

🇬🇧 I just saw the presidents of the State and Andalusia speaking together at a press conference about the dreadful wildfires in Los Gallardos. I think it’s great to see all the state authorities collaborating when we’re experiencing the reality of the chaos and the consequences of climate change. This isn’t just theory! It isn’t a drill. We’re living it. Personally, I want to see more of this cooperation. Only together can we confront these problems and decide how we’re going to change things to reduce the risks to citizens, our homes, and our surroundings.

At all levels, we need to ensure that the necessary prevention and emergency plans are in place that are fit for purpose in 2026. Furthermore, we have to decide what changes we can make in our lives; this isn’t just a problem for politicians, it’s everyone’s problem. We can’t go back, but perhaps we don’t have to blindly follow a path of predestination or fatalism just because we refuse to make changes or personal sacrifices.

Nor do we want to witness the despicable blame game that the press has started, essentially blaming the victims of the fire. This has caused great pain to many residents and families. It’s always best to wait for an investigation to be carried out or for evidence to be presented. We need to resist jumping to conclusions as so often encouraged by the social media algorithms. The media shouldn’t be distracted from the debate on fundamental questions related to what we can do about climate change, because it’s more interesting and dramatic to exploit anger and fear.

The future of our children and grandchildren doesn’t have to be predetermined; it’s up to everyone to pay attention. Politicians who deny climate change, who don’t want to or aren’t interested in making the important changes needed to reduce the risks of the chaos of the climate crisis, should get out of the way. The rest, I believe, should come together and collaborate, listening to the facts, the science, regardless of party affiliation, and rejecting disinformation. Only in this way can we rebuild public trust. And citizens can, of course, contribute to this effort at the ballot box.

@redalphababe

Consejos

Aproveche cada luna 

Cada estrella en el cielo 

Abraza los que amas con toda la fuerza del alma 

Deja las ideas hacer el vuelo 

Al lugar donde el positivo es la única bandera 

La sabiduría solo nos viene  al conocer

Lo malo que ponemos a un lado 

Y el bueno en las manos  

para crecer se necesita una vida bien vivida 

El negativo siempre lejos 

La esperanza siempre cerca 

Recuerda lo feliz

Intenta perdonar 

 Nuestros hijos nos lo agradecerán 

Las herramientas que consiguen 

Siguiendo nuestros ejemplos extraordinarios 

@redalphababe

Stuck on red

Can’t go forward. Can’t go back.

A life in limbo.  Too much to pack

away in her head under lock and key 

to examine sometime, when it’s clearer to see 

the enlightened path that takes her home

where the flowers grow and happiness is sown. 

But she’s stuck on red in a queue for her life

waiting  things out for the end of the strife.

Sometime soon the light will turn green.

all stations go.  No longer a dream 

of a life best lived  but  a  reality daily

of laughter and light, a new adventure  celebrated gaily.

Out of the shadows, escaped from a past holding her back

Into the brightness of goodness, of love, no longer a lack. 

Flowers and  candles, Music and freedom, to go

And to come where she likes. The green light tells her so.

Her thirst will be quenched.

It’s the end of her hunger.

Stuck on Red

But not for much longer

@redalphababe

The space inside

I saw a photo of “I Viaggiatori” a sculpture by the artist Bruno Catalano, symbolizing the void created by leaving one’s country, one’s family, one’s people for another life. It made me think of the stories of the past when Spaniards went out into the world and left their families through need or for adventure and I wrote this poem about the void that people feel.

The space inside

We both see the same constellations

But you are far from here.

We both roast under the same sun.

But I am alone, my dear.

The moon smiles down on us

The stars glitter as we stare .

But you are not with me

And I am not there.

I am here toiling,

listening to the sounds

the rumble of machines,

Shouts in tongues abound

Laughter which hides

the pain of that hole.

Which lies inside our hearts,

the ache in our souls

we left our families

and our lands out of need.

to protect their futures

Or their mouths to feed

We found the solution

though not always the best.

For our breaking hearts

But our heads discarded the rest.

I write you letters

and imagine your voice .

I comfort myself in the labour

The drudgery of my choice.

Each exhausting task

is one day closer to you,

to my homeland, my bedrock,

seeing family anew

The empty space

will be open again.

To be filled with the joy

of our reunion.

This is what I tell myself.

To get me through the days.

It doesn’t matter if they lie

To stop us leaving when we say

Wait for me my darling

One day we can ease

our pain of isolation. To a brighter future we’ll have the keys.

Wait for me darling look

At the glitter of the stars

One day we’ll dance again together

No longer weeping from afar

One day reunited

Look at the moon, my dear.

No longer to be parted

The empty space inside will disappear

@redalphababe

Distance

Talking to one of my best friends we were discussing how it feels when your children grow up and go forward to live their lives. I was inspired to write this poem

Distance

Flying the nest
to make one your own
Now ours is empty,
We sit here alone
You plough your own furrow
We taught you so well
We’re happy you love life
We tried to make sure you never fell
Even if you did
We always picked you up
Of course we still would
Your perennial backup

But you listened to our advice
And collected skills and achievements
We made ourselves redundant
Surplus to requirements
It’s a bitter sweet moment
Now as we reflect in the sun
We lose a child who needs us
And gain a man of strength and fun

In the quiet of the day
the tick tock so loud
Even the clock misses you
It feels like a dark cloud
A new way of living
Has to be found
A different way of thinking
As a future abounds

Remember if you ever have a moment of doubt
Look up at the stars
Where our love for you can be found
Watching and thinking of you
I will be looking at the same sun
You make us so proud. Our amazing son.

@redalphababe

Wedding Wish

I wrote this poem for my son and his bride on their wedding day.

A life together
A love forever.
We gather here.
To smile and cheer.
And wish you both a beautiful life.
A life to share as man and wife.

Never forget who each of you is.
Though IS becomes ARE you must still take and give
I becomes WE whilst still YOU and I
You will have a full life together with both laughter and sighs.
never forget the summer in her eyes, the kindness in his smile, the wit in her replies

Even those rare times, we all sometimes bear.
When laughter is hard to find, these things you too will share.
But I know you will always emerge from such gloom
Holding hands dancing together to life’s happiest tune.
All that is left is to raise up a toast.
We wish you the best of all things a life of light and hope

@redalphababe

Below the mountain

The world is far, far away

Here is green, blue and mountain high
The colours shine their perfect hues
The groomsmen strut the bridesmaids sigh
As words of love exchanged with joy
leave a tear soaked crowd looking on with pride
rituals of sand and wine, garlands and verse
Emotional mothers clutch at their purse
The beautiful displays show how love abounds
Hope is alive in a world which otherwise
seems a cacophony of ugly sounds
Love is still here
Love is still pure
Family is still precious
Good fortune exists, that is sure.
here the notes work together,
like an orchestra playing masters old
A perfect pitch and tempo of gold
Before us stood a girl and boy
Transformed before us to woman and man
In this garden, green and lush
Below the Mountain in Tepoztlán

Maracas shake and swoosh, umbrellas unfurl
Ribbons catching in the breeze
Children play, run and twirl
The party starts, the guests all freeze
for pictures, moments of diamonds shining captured in the breeze
The food, the dancing
Tequila and beautiful smiles so bright
The party continues but the brightest lights
Are laughing and spinning at the centre – Ale and Dan
Showing us all what true love really is
Below the Mountain in Tepoztlán

A poem by Pilar Gomez @redalphababe
dedicated to Ale and Dan

Dear 2022

This is the first time in a long time I felt I had something to say so here it is.  I found 2021 was really just a continuation of 2020.  More of the same. I am glad to see the back of it despite some goods things I have personally achieved this year.  However, Covid and Brexit between them have really stopped progress for many and Covid, in particular, has masked some fundamental problems which are now holding back the British economy and society and still many people there have no idea really.  Covid has caused European economies many issues too and Brexit has not been without costs for some EU based industries.

As bad as Brexit is and as bad as the global covid pandemic is, there is another epidemic which I have felt ever more gloomy about and which connects to these two things and may be around longer and with deeper and more harmful consequences. It is the web of misinformation which is rampant across all social media platforms across the world and in some of the national press even, and gleefully shared and promoted by far too many people. 

I love popular science programmes on TV.  There have been some fascinating ones about the world around us, about the universe, the stars etc.  Presented by attractive, knowledgeable, engaging academics, at their best they fill us with a genuine desire to understand more and they certainly give me an appreciation of just how bloody hard this stuff is.  Let’s say you watch the explanation of how a black hole forms, and whilst you are watching you feel like you understand what they are saying but only about 2 sentences actually stay in your head for more than 10 minutes.  Try it, try watching an entire programme and then explain properly what you just saw in detail 10 minutes later to one of your friends.  The fifty-minute show will be condensed down into the 2 or 3 points you can recall with any detail or comprehension.  That’s not because we are stupid or poorly education, it is because most of us haven’t got the foundation of knowledge that these scientists have built working in science day after day, over a lifetime, nor do we have the time or inclination to get anywhere near building that foundation if we are not working in those areas and talking frequently to other knowledgeable people we can learn from.  We have jobs, we have families, we have other commitments

So why on earth do people think they are suddenly pandemic experts because they read some blog by an ex weather forecaster who says it’s all a plot by Bill Gates.  Why do they think someone whose credentials are related to psychotherapy is going to be absolutely right in direct contradiction to a scientific consensus of renowned virologists?  How many peer-reviewed scientific papers has this person read? Do they understand them? Of course, they don’t, they have read a blog by someone who has picked out one or two things from a paper, removed all the context and presented a skewed and inaccurate or unevidenced conclusion.  How is some Instagram celebrity more influential on medical matters than experts from WHO, people who have spent their careers dealing with epidemics around the world?  Why should I,  having spent years running a business and knowing every intricate detail of it, be cowed by a random on the internet who has never employed so much as a tea bag,  telling me I am completely wrong over some detail on business, or some expected consequence of business-related government policies.   

We have seen it again and again, one day the same accounts are supply chain experts, the next day the news shifts and they are experts on viruses, the next day they are experts on farming and fishing, the following day they are experts on 5g masts, wind farms, solar energy, racism and on and on and on.  Really?  These accounts claim to be ordinary people, it’s amazing they have time to do their ordinary job given the amount of reading they would have to do just to understand one of these things in depth.  Of course, the suspicion is that many are not real and the accounts are created to bring fuel to the conversation, making it appear that some contentious idea is more popularly held than it is, the agenda being to therefore make it more popularly held.  The public are being manipulated to the point that if the right celebrity stated that day was in fact night and the fact we can see the sun was a symptom of mass hysteria, there would be arguments breaking out all over the social media sites about this.    The film “Don’t Look Up” on Netflix is a perfect satire of this alarming world we currently live in.  I found it funny, because the people are so preposterous, and at the same time terrifying because I could actually imagine it happening for real and you could argue that it’s a very good allegory for the attitudes over climate change where there is still a minority unwilling to accept that there is anything wrong and behaviours must change in the face of overwhelming scientific consensus.

So, what can we do to battle this fake stuff?  Well personally I try to ignore as many nonsense posts as I can.  Life is too short to end up in bizarre circular unproductive Facebook arguments.  We must all learn to scroll past more, me included.  It’s the arguments which feed the algorithms which show us the nonsense even more. 

Sometimes it’s hard to resist having a laugh at the more idiotic ideas though and I think humour and satire is probably a good tactic for debunking garbage, depending on who you are ridiculing.  Best not to ridicule your uncle Albert directly if you want a reasonably peaceful socially distanced family get together  but by all means share a satirical post which highlights the foolishness of the post he just shared.  A couple of months ago some Q anon people turned up in Dallas claiming John F Kennedy was going to come back to life that day and take over the presidency then give it to Trump.  I am not sure what they said once it became clear there was going to be nobody coming back from the dead that day. I wondered what their families said to them and did they not feel totally stupid?  What was thanksgiving like in their house, pitying looks from Aunt Mabel whilst the teenage cousins sniggered at them in the corner?  That’s the problem with false prophets, much like Boris Johnson’s government they rarely keep their promises and you are left high and dry trying to defend or reverse the position you had defended so staunchly. 

We are not helped by leading politicians around the world, not so stupid fools who were underestimated at some point and therefore through complacency of sensible people, ended up leading entire countries and have embraced the idea of social media to peddle the false information and lies that feeds their followers.  Populism has been thriving as these leaders have misused and manipulated the more direct connection that SM platforms give them along with the use of data to maximise this, to build rather dubious but lucrative power base.  Let’s not forget the president of the United States even used Twitter and Facebook as, amongst other things, a means to question a democratic result  and propagated the lie that the election was stolen through his fan base creating a violent fury amongst them.  Here is the clearest example that the consequences of these things do not stop in the virtual world.  If keyboard warriors remained just at their keyboard we wouldn’t have so much of a problem.  The storming of the Capitol was beamed on TV screens everywhere and, to much of the world, was both terrifying and unfathomable.  In the end US democracy was strong enough to hold despite the efforts which had been made and continue to be made by men and women of the far right to undermine it.  In the UK and across Europe we most also hold back the attacks on our democracies and we cannot do that until we stop allowing ourselves to be manipulated by groundless unsourced online pulp fiction.  We do have to take our voting responsibilities seriously.  If you want sensible politicians who tell you the fundamental truth, that complex problems require complex solutions, you have to vote for them, you have to show support for them and vote for them and vote!

There have always been cults and small groups of people who believe crazy things but has there ever been more channels for them to spread their misinformation and has there ever been so many leaders of mainstream democracies willing to use these channels to further their own dodgy agendas.   Media sites must stop paying lip service to all this and take responsibility for what is published on their channels just like any other magazine, newspaper, or book.  Governments too must accept responsibility.  There is a lot of political talk in Europe about how to deal with social media misuse, I sincerely hope it comes to something meaningful and look forward to seeing and thinking about the ideas that come through.  Social Media,  just like any other industry, will not regulate themselves effectively, they need some legislation of some kind to force them into behaving responsibly and mitigate against false information and maybe if the countries of the EU can get to grips with this successfully, other countries will follow the lead. Traditional press and TV media must play their part.  In competition with online media sites, there is far too much clickbait used which feeds the Polarisation of Views Monster. 

So, 2022, what do I want from you?  Well like everyone else I want to see Covid going away for good.  But just as much I want to see solutions to the social media paradox.  There is so much good which comes from a digital world connecting people, so many benefits that we have all gained.  Would we have got through the last 2 years without being able to connect remotely to each other for example?   It would really be a massive negligence, criminal in fact,  if our societies do not get to grips with the idea of mitigating against the misuse and abuse of social media  perpetrated by powerful people with dubious agendas because in the end the rest of us will pay a very heavy price for their thirst for power. 

Happy New Year.

A prize and a price

They seek their prize

We pay the price

They lined up their ducks

The ducks are now fucked

With autocorrect we’ve all been had

The prize has a price, a country gone mad

These men get bigger when we get smaller

There egos grow stronger when we get poorer

What good is their power when the world is competing

To diminish their stature. So they got to cheating.

Why did they do it? We do not know.

What’s their agenda? One day soon it may show

But the price for their hubris is not one they’ll pay

That will fall on the rest of us with interest on payday

The etonmess boarders gave us borders anew

We are the loosers or losers – who knew

That an army of misspellers could be so effective.

They will throw everything to reach their objective

The barriers to entry will keep them in charge.

The keys to the kingdom with typos writ large

Their army of fakes helped get them hear

Pretending to be human or normal minus fear.

But here is my warning

when they promise you a new age dawning.

It’s not that they want to change the world

The world changed already – haven’t you heard.

They want the control to sit in their hands.

The rogue traders of politics are just shifting the sands

It’s our house which will collapse

Whilst they’re stealing are foundations

They‘re stealing your maps So you have to staycation

Jackanory Tell a Story in a Rose Garden

I hope that people who are now so exercised by the Dominic Cummings affair can now understand why so many of us have been so passionately exercised about the EU referendum and everything Brexit related that has unfolded from that.   Several excellent analyses I have seen from columnists as to why the majority of people are furious, have made the point about how personal this issue has been.

Everyone was expected to follow the Covid lockdown rules and they are, without doubt, difficult rules which divide family, which isolate people, which cause anxiety on many fronts, whether that is health, social or financial.   To see a person with power allowed to justify his breach of the rules so publicly without so much as an apology then have him and his slightly fantastical explanations defended furiously by PM and cabinet ministers alike has not only made the government a national and sadly an international disgrace,  but has touched people up and down this land at the most personal level, as they feel the pain of missing their children and grandchildren, or as they cope with their own childcare dilemmas without leaving home.

Their people have died alone, their frail elderly relatives are in care homes are maybe completely baffled as to why they are not getting visits from loved ones.  Their houses and flats are crowded, and their children are climbing the walls.  I read an article about young people going back to school in Spain as we ease out of lockdown, and the thing they found hardest was not being able to hug each other because of the social distancing rules.  This lack of being able to show our normal affection for each other is a source of pain.  Yet most people in Britain have followed the rules despite all these difficulties and temptations.  The previous government advisers found to have breached their own recommendations resigned swiftly.  Dominic Cummings instead held a personal roadshow in the Rose Garden and refused to admit he had done a single thing wrong and even let slip he has been making decisions for the Prime Minister without bothering him, a rather worrying revelation which hasn’t really been followed up by the press yet.  Nobody every voted for Dominic Cummings.  But he has done what they have all done since 2016 – doubled down again and again and got Boris Johnson and his mates to do the same.

So hold on to that thought for a moment – why you are so angry?  The Dominic Cummings/Boris Johnson partnership and their cabinet muppets are taking the mick, that’s how you feel, right?  For some of us, all this is just a continuation of the fury we have felt at the egregious interference with our families and businesses and lives that Brexit represents since 2016.  For us this has been personal for many reasons.  We have been lied to constantly, we have had broken promises, our concerns have been ignored.   You see, when government decisions have such a personal impact on the day to day lives of so many people and they are managed so badly, they cause division and make it impossible to forgive anything.  The scale of anger over the “one rule for them aspect” jars because the lockdown has affected every single person directly.  The scale of rage over Brexit and Brexit lies has been met with much apathy, indifference or irritation from the other half of the British public largely, I believe, because there are so many people who don’t think they will be affected.  They don’t think it’s relevant to them.

Conversely, the rest of us have raged because we see the hypocrisy of the crowing about removing freedom of movement for a nation, and for us personally, by a bunch of politicians many of whom have sneakily got themselves a second EU passport or who’s financial position means they will always have freedom of movement.  We have seen government ministers owning companies which have profited from the volatility of sterling through these long and terrible 5 years, a volatility caused by them,  whilst many of us with small businesses contemplate the damage that leaving the EU represents to our life’s work.

For millions of us will be affected, have been affected in the most personal way by Brexit.  People have already lost jobs, closed businesses, scrabbled around for new contracts.  Our sense of identity has been assaulted; a part ripped from us.  Families have been divided, children face a future having to choose between looking after elderly parents in one country or living with their spouses in another – forced to choose.  EU citizens have been insulted and faced discrimination and xenophobia never faced before as they have been made to justify their presence on British shores.  They are being made to pay extra for their access to medical treatment, in effect they are paying twice because they have a different passport.

Yes, I know you will point out that health and care workers are now exempted from the NHS surcharge,  but really, it’s the worse kind of racism that attempts to make out that some foreigners are more useful than others.  It’s really an extension of the “we didn’t mean you” attitude which is so offensive.   The policy should be scrapped for all immigrants living and working in the UK permanently, regardless of where in the world they are from.

EU citizens who had a legitimate vote in the EU elections last year were denied a vote with no justification simply because the Brexit government has nothing but contempt for Europeans and didn’t care enough to sort out its voter registration systems.  There is an attempt to hold the government to account for this disgraceful chapter by the way, and I would urge all of you who have professed to stand by the 3 Million to please support the 3 Million in this endeavour.  The crowdfunder offers a tangible way to challenge the government through the courts since you won’t be able to vote them out until 2024/5.  I have added the link at the bottom for this.  Please share and help if you possibly can.

The scale of rage over Brexit has been met largely with indifference or irritation amongst the general public because there are so many people who don’t believe they will be affected.  I am sorry to break the news, but whoever you are, you will be affected too at the end of 2020 when transition ends. You will all be affected.  When the government is totally blasé about whether we will have a reasonable trade deal with the EU by the end of the year, why would you now unquestionably trust them that no-deal won’t be a problem in light of current government behaviour?  If they can defend a bizarre story about driving to a castle to check your eyesight is okay, why would you believe them that we don’t need an extension to transition in the current circumstances.  If you are dependent on meds imported from the EU to stay alive, why would you think it will all be hunky dory if negotiations fail on trading arrangements when one of the key architects added something to his blog after his regulation breach in order to present himself in a certain way in that performance, claiming he had warned about Covid before it all began?  You don’t have to be a trade expert to know that no deal will present problems to supply chains.  If a virus can cause challenges to supplies of all sorts of things, as it has done,  so can a lack of trading arrangements.

If your job is hanging by a thread because your employers have used all their reserves to stay afloat with no income for months, why would you think after the economic shock of this Covid disaster is being worked out, that they will have anything left over to keep you in paid employment when their competitiveness and profitability is further slashed by no-deal consequences on their supply lines or when a deep recession removes discretionary spending from their customers pockets?   If government can carry on with a recess of parliament during a massive global health crisis and emergency, the like of which we have never seen before in our lifetimes, what makes you think they won’t keep avoiding being held to account on absolutely everything with their massive majority and 5 years to the next election.  They are taking you for mugs over Covid and Dominic Cummings, what on earth makes you think they aren’t taking us all for mugs over the refusal to request an extension and abandoning our trading relationships with our closest trading partners, neighbours and friends?  In fact, what else are they taking you for mugs over?

@redalphababe

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